Missing Him
Monday, August 21, 2006
Now, you're missing your lover, your man. Men, we can't live with them, yet we can't live without them. From an older perspective, i can only say if he is not thinking of you, you shouldn't be thinking of him, if he is too busy for you, then you should be too busy for him, if he is not calling you, you shouldn't call him, if he is not writing to you, don't waste a moment to write to him (write to me instead). Now back to basics, do you follow your heart or your head? Good question. I am a huge romantic, a sap. I would have to say they both must be aligned perfectly. So if he's busy with family or his job consumes him, follow your heart. If he is an alcoholic and beats you everyday, follow your head. This is something you must take the time to explore. If my man was too busy for me, personally, after a long hard day at the job, yes he would walk through the door to an immediate long, wet blow job. If he is a workaholic as you say, then it's best to nurture him, make your man strong and then somewhere in between your lovemaking, tell him you need that extra phone call throughout the day, tell him you need that little spicy email when he has that 1 minute to tell you what he's doing to you later. Tell him that these things are the most important. As women, we need this, we all have the same complaint. Our men don't reach out to us as much as we need, as much as we desire. That 1 extra random minute of the day has us all blushing and secure until he comes home, it tells us he's thinking of us, as we think of him all day long. Why??? Because we're women, and what do women do? we think, we think of our men all day, we miss you all day long. The minutes feel like hours. He should appreciate you and if he loves you and values you, then he'll make this small sacrifice, as relationships are all about compromise!! How dare he! But anyway, tell him how you feel, if he is wise, he will compromise, if not then trust me when i tell you that you should tell him that you will easily find a man to worship you and call you like 7 times a day!!!I don't think i like your lover, he sounds like a selfish lover, who is at risk of losing what may be the best thing in his life, how men are so silly. If only they can be reprogrammed to understand that we need attention, LOTS OF IT.....oh and ask him, Honey, is it better for me to ask for a mink coat or expensive gorgeous soft leather pocket book that ummm I just can't stop smelling instead of just a few additional minutes of your mind when i'm home missing you so much??? This should show him that you really do love him for him, not for the money he's making or the diamond necklace you know he didn't buy you. You sound like a gem, any man would love you. If he claims you're a nag and now his mother, you must reevaluate this relationship, i'm sticking to my guns on this one....selfish lover, workaholic, could be making time for someone else, self centered, never "truly truly loved a woman" (so tell me have you ever really, really really ever loved a woman)
Now, you're missing your lover, your man. Men, we can't live with them, yet we can't live without them. From an older perspective, i can only say if he is not thinking of you, you shouldn't be thinking of him, if he is too busy for you, then you should be too busy for him, if he is not calling you, you shouldn't call him, if he is not writing to you, don't waste a moment to write to him (write to me instead). Now back to basics, do you follow your heart or your head? Good question. I am a huge romantic, a sap. I would have to say they both must be aligned perfectly. So if he's busy with family or his job consumes him, follow your heart. If he is an alcoholic and beats you everyday, follow your head. This is something you must take the time to explore. If my man was too busy for me, personally, after a long hard day at the job, yes he would walk through the door to an immediate long, wet blow job. If he is a workaholic as you say, then it's best to nurture him, make your man strong and then somewhere in between your lovemaking, tell him you need that extra phone call throughout the day, tell him you need that little spicy email when he has that 1 minute to tell you what he's doing to you later. Tell him that these things are the most important. As women, we need this, we all have the same complaint. Our men don't reach out to us as much as we need, as much as we desire. That 1 extra random minute of the day has us all blushing and secure until he comes home, it tells us he's thinking of us, as we think of him all day long. Why??? Because we're women, and what do women do? we think, we think of our men all day, we miss you all day long. The minutes feel like hours. He should appreciate you and if he loves you and values you, then he'll make this small sacrifice, as relationships are all about compromise!! How dare he! But anyway, tell him how you feel, if he is wise, he will compromise, if not then trust me when i tell you that you should tell him that you will easily find a man to worship you and call you like 7 times a day!!!I don't think i like your lover, he sounds like a selfish lover, who is at risk of losing what may be the best thing in his life, how men are so silly. If only they can be reprogrammed to understand that we need attention, LOTS OF IT.....oh and ask him, Honey, is it better for me to ask for a mink coat or expensive gorgeous soft leather pocket book that ummm I just can't stop smelling instead of just a few additional minutes of your mind when i'm home missing you so much??? This should show him that you really do love him for him, not for the money he's making or the diamond necklace you know he didn't buy you. You sound like a gem, any man would love you. If he claims you're a nag and now his mother, you must reevaluate this relationship, i'm sticking to my guns on this one....selfish lover, workaholic, could be making time for someone else, self centered, never "truly truly loved a woman" (so tell me have you ever really, really really ever loved a woman)
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