Next Time
Saturday, August 19, 2006
I could never understand men, what is the problem, if you are seeing someone and that woman might not be your ideal woman in your mind, or maybe she actually could be; there is nothing wrong with seeing where things may lead without any stress or pressure. Why do people tend to shy away from others? You and I both know that you don't have anything else better to do than to explore all outcomes. Aren't we all supposed to be adults? There shouldn't be a time factor placed on people. I think it's beautiful to be open to new people, new families, new surroundings. We are only here for a short while with each other. I don't feel anyone out there could force a commitment. Being adults, we know what feels right, who feels right, and little by little we let that guard down. Isn't it better to have loved than to not have loved at all. Lets face it, we all have some level of baggage, some are heavier than others, and i believe when getting to know someone, some of that baggage may be revealed. As adults, it think it's wise to question where we draw the line. For example, if meeting a man who is a professional at unemployment and lying, this is baggage that i'll turn away from. If he has other baggage, coming out of a bad relationship or bad job or experience, this is where we should weigh the pros and cons, does he have a nice personality, is he warm, affectionate, decent? I don't feel people should be repunished for their bad experiences. I think the world is far too cold and we should make the effort to help those who may have lost their way and a trying so desperately to reconnect to others and society. Forget about yourself, your goals, your beautiful picture and allow yourself to just flow like a river... you just may be surprised as to what you discover, provided that there are NO EXPECTATIONS. There is no ideal match, life is what you make it, destiny needs a push, or sometimes a good kick, or jump start. Dont sit around waiting for that perfect envisioned woman to walk into your life. Create her, Feel her, love her, nurture her and make her yours. Make the time to create the love you want. Your partner becomes your number 1 priority in your life, not your job. A friend of mine recently suffered a horrible accident, left him wheel chair bound for life. His caring and loving wife cares for him, not her dream, not his dream that life would be this way now, but rest assured, he loved her, more than his job, above everything and everyone, and he made time for her, was never TOO BUSY for her. Good move because now, not a day goes by that she is ever to busy for him. He made her. He made her his. He made her love him. He was never ever busy for her. She loves her husband and will care for him in a way that no one could. She still has that passion and chemistry he took the time to create with her, for her. He never judged her. He just loved her, above all things in life. This is a real wife, not the one to leave at the first sign of trouble. Create her and cherish her. This is life.
I could never understand men, what is the problem, if you are seeing someone and that woman might not be your ideal woman in your mind, or maybe she actually could be; there is nothing wrong with seeing where things may lead without any stress or pressure. Why do people tend to shy away from others? You and I both know that you don't have anything else better to do than to explore all outcomes. Aren't we all supposed to be adults? There shouldn't be a time factor placed on people. I think it's beautiful to be open to new people, new families, new surroundings. We are only here for a short while with each other. I don't feel anyone out there could force a commitment. Being adults, we know what feels right, who feels right, and little by little we let that guard down. Isn't it better to have loved than to not have loved at all. Lets face it, we all have some level of baggage, some are heavier than others, and i believe when getting to know someone, some of that baggage may be revealed. As adults, it think it's wise to question where we draw the line. For example, if meeting a man who is a professional at unemployment and lying, this is baggage that i'll turn away from. If he has other baggage, coming out of a bad relationship or bad job or experience, this is where we should weigh the pros and cons, does he have a nice personality, is he warm, affectionate, decent? I don't feel people should be repunished for their bad experiences. I think the world is far too cold and we should make the effort to help those who may have lost their way and a trying so desperately to reconnect to others and society. Forget about yourself, your goals, your beautiful picture and allow yourself to just flow like a river... you just may be surprised as to what you discover, provided that there are NO EXPECTATIONS. There is no ideal match, life is what you make it, destiny needs a push, or sometimes a good kick, or jump start. Dont sit around waiting for that perfect envisioned woman to walk into your life. Create her, Feel her, love her, nurture her and make her yours. Make the time to create the love you want. Your partner becomes your number 1 priority in your life, not your job. A friend of mine recently suffered a horrible accident, left him wheel chair bound for life. His caring and loving wife cares for him, not her dream, not his dream that life would be this way now, but rest assured, he loved her, more than his job, above everything and everyone, and he made time for her, was never TOO BUSY for her. Good move because now, not a day goes by that she is ever to busy for him. He made her. He made her his. He made her love him. He was never ever busy for her. She loves her husband and will care for him in a way that no one could. She still has that passion and chemistry he took the time to create with her, for her. He never judged her. He just loved her, above all things in life. This is a real wife, not the one to leave at the first sign of trouble. Create her and cherish her. This is life.
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