I'm Bringing Sexy Back....

So what do you do when you're seeing a man who finds you sexy, even after the first few dates. What can a woman do, who is naturally sexy looking, who enjoys wearing make-up, who adores high heels, who just has natural sex appeal? Does sexy equal whore these days? Does black lingerie equal easy hoe? What can a woman do who is seeing a man who is quite interesting, laid back, gainfully employed, successful, and charming...what can she do when he does invest good time, unending phone conversations, exquisite dining, gives her the attention she craves, as she is quite a vixen....what can she do to understand if he really and truly is into her, as he claims. Do men really only think of sex? Are they as sex crazed as we've always imagined or are there men out there who really like you, who really like sexy? Well, I do believe there are decent men out there who just enjoy women, enjoy the fact that a woman can spoil herself with manicures, pedicures, facials, massages, and full body treatments. I do believe that there are men out there, not old balls either, who just enjoy being with a woman who enjoys being a woman and one who can look good in a Hummer as well. The high maintenance woman always wins, as I've observed. So what does one think or do about this new man beast of hers. Yes she is taming and training...okay well really training, not taming; a man SHOULD BE A MAN. He shows an emotional tender teddybear side which screams he doesn't really require sex this instant. He is gentle, he realizes that sexy is good. He realizes that there is a difference to the woman he is with as compared to the commoners, the not so sexy ones, the anna buthana hoes. He realizes this woman's worth. He values, I believe, her attitude and views. He listens when she speaks of never being a whore, just making fun of them. He pays attention when she reveals that marriage is not on her mind, nevertheless a child. He respects her wishes. He is not about the sex. I do believe there are so many men out there that love to eat in fine New York restaurants, who love long drives, who has a deep passion for his work. Yes, there is a man out there who just wants to be with a sexy woman. Who realizes there is more to life than what can happen in a bedroom, or better yet, the front seat of a truck. He realizes that just cuddling and other sexy "things" are okay. He realizes that there is more to this person who can be very wild and explosive in bed, yet he is in no rush. He's a grown up. He is no longer that young man, he has emerged into the real man. He realizes that there is a tremendous difference between getting laid by a low maintenance whore chick and making passionate love for hours to a sexy high maintenance one. He chooses the latter. He makes her happy. He stays close to her. He realizes that she has already been married, been there done that, he knows she knows how to make a man happy for at least 14 years. He realizes that she is strong, little women can't begin to fuck with her...there's no match. He celebrates her freedom, her mind every night. Their thinking and views are the same. She is sexy for him, for her man, she knows how to please him, even if its not that heated yet. She goes slow, he goes slower. So the lesson here is....there is nothing wrong with going slow, nothing wrong with enjoying each other in ways where you're not feeling whorish, there is nothing wrong with being sexy, nothing wrong with playing while building up trust and respect, nothing wrong with sleeping with only one man who enhances your existence, but doesn't complete it, you don't need him for that. For that, you must do it on your own, for yourself first. Nuture your body, nuture your heart, and go to Church, nurture thy soul...then he comes...(literally) and then you can appreciate each other. -Written by the 'real woman not into the games, not into the bullshit of being a one night stand, not into the head games, not into the little girl games....because yes, the experience ones, meaning older mature ones are always the best at giving..well I'll leave that to the imagination..........nothing like that when good chemistry and feelings are involved.....so don't play that players game, that's for the yukky girls...not you....be true to yourself always....................ciao